At the “Asexuality in Fandom” panel at WorldCon 76, we talked a lot about representation in media. As promised, here are the ace/aro umbrella recs suggested by panelists and audience members.
Got recs of your own? Drop ’em in the comments.
Books
A Song of Ice and Fire series by George R. R. Martin
Mortal Instruments series by Cassandra Clare
Protector of the Small series by Tamora Pierce
Hullmetal Girls by Emily Skrutskie
Every Heart a Doorway and Beneath the Sugar Sky by Seanan McGuire
Quicksilver by R.J. Anderson
Accident of Stars by Foz Meadows
Lifeline Signal by RoAnna Sylver
Unsong by Scott Alexander
Banner of the Damned by Sherwood Smith
Mindtouch by M.C.A. Hogarth
Guardian of the Dead by Karen Healey
Space Unicorn Blues by T.J. Berry
Lady’s Guide to Petticoats and Piracy by Mackenzi Lee (note: Felicity is not explicitly labeled as asexual or aromantic as the terms were not used in the 18th century, although the text makes it clear that she’s under the ace/aro umbrella)
The Invisible Orientation: An Introduction to Asexuality by Julia Sondra Decker
Avi Cantor Has Six Months to Live by Sacha Lamb
Gods, Monsters, and the Lucky Peach by Kelly Robson
Vicious and Vengeful by VE Schwab (note: Victor is not explicitly labeled as asexual – Schwab has said he is, although the text only implies it)
Secondhand Origin Stories by Lee Blauersouth
Plus a whole lot more at this database.
Comics
Sex Criminals (Alix)
Jughead (Jughead)
The Movement (Tremor)
TV
Bojack Horseman (Todd Chavez)
Game of Thrones (Varys)
Shadowhunters (Rafael)
Webcomics
Fanfic
Punk-Ass Book Jockey 
Hi, the show’s run already ended but Sirens(US version) has an asexual character as wel. Voodoo is a great character so I’d love it if she was added to this list.
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I was under the impression that the show was a traditional sitcom? Trying to keep this list to just SF/F. But yes, she is a good suggestion.
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Hey! I was at this panel, and super glad it existed. Thanks so much for doing this. I just found out a couple days ago that the main character from Vicious, by VE Schwab, is asexual and will be canonically confirmed so in the next book (according to the author’s twitter). Since it’s one of my favorite books, this made me cry, and also I wished I had known in time for the con so I could add it to this list!
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Yes! I forgot about Victor! Adding now.
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